Wow, it’s been a long long time since I’ve really made any sort of an effort on here. School has been busy, life keeps me busy and some of my other things have fallen by the wayside. But things are starting to settle down a little bit, so here I am!
I think that it’s really tough to go through with feeling that way. I regret when I lost my virginity. I have always been really insecure myself and lost it in the same way, I wanted someone to want me, and someone at the time did, but it wasn’t the right way for it to happen.
I would recommend trying to think about all your really great qualities. Think about the things that you really like about yourself and play up on those. We all have insecurities, but I think accepting all the positive things about ourselves and being comfortable with that, and knowing that really good people in the world will see those things, it’ll help a lot. Even if it doesn’t seem like it, being true to yourself and being confident that there are people out there who will love those positive things about you is a big step in the right direction.
Hope that helps a little :)